In the course of life, we often encounter two difficulties: to apologize when we are wrong and to forgive those who come to apologize.


It is a respectable courage for those who dare to say “sorry” to the person they have wronged. Saying "sorry" is an act of responsibility, and the courage to take responsibility will help individuals improve their quality of life.


But one should not just apologize without doing it sincerely. Doing something without going through real kindness is just a moral act. Ethical acts are generally regarded as a form of social pressure on people. On the other hand, if a person has a lot of moral knowledge but is not educated, he will not be able to do some things from the heart. Because what? Because they will do things according to social preferences only. Therefore, they may make the same mistake again. Saying "sorry" for the same mistake is a reflection of the person's generosity that he did not do it from the heart.


Forgiveness is also of great value to our lives. It has been said in the past, "Forgiveness does not mean we release them. The truth is, we release ourselves." It is not hard to imagine when someone keeps Keep anger and hatred in their hearts, because no matter how hard they try to increase the amount of anger and hatred, their minds and lives will be gloomy accordingly. Is not this like setting yourself on fire?


In general, saying "sorry" and apologizing are equally difficult. But knowing this, individuals should learn to do it calmly and sincerely. If you really want a better and happier life, you must learn and practice good deeds calmly. Only a calm mind can have the power to command ourselves to do the right thing.

BY CHAO MEANUP